For neurodivergent individuals—those with conditions like autism, ADHD, dyslexia, or other cognitive differences—counselling or therapy can be a uniquely challenging experience. While therapy aims to provide support, healing, and growth, it is often designed around neurotypical norms, which may not always align with the needs of neurodivergent clients. Neurodiversity and Counselling may not always go hand in hand depending on the provider.
One of the biggest challenges is communication. Many counselling solutions rely heavily on verbal expression and emotional introspection, which may be difficult for people with neurodivergent conditions. For example, autistic individuals may struggle with identifying or articulating their emotions in ways that are expected in traditional talk therapy. Therapists who aren't trained in neurodivergence may misinterpret this as a lack of engagement or emotional depth, leading to frustration on both sides.
Additionally, many psychotherapy environments can often be overwhelming. Sensory sensitivity, common among neurodivergent people, means that the physical setting of the therapist's office—lighting, sounds, or even the texture of furniture—may cause discomfort or distraction. This sensory overload can make it hard to focus on the therapeutic process itself.
Many neurodivergent people also experience different cognitive processing, which can lead to feeling misunderstood. ADHD clients, for instance, might struggle with long-term consistency in therapy, while those with dyslexia might find written homework or introspective journaling assignments difficult to complete. If these differences aren’t recognized, the therapeutic approach might not address their real needs.
The stigma around neurodivergence often makes it harder for individuals to feel understood. Without a therapist who is well-versed in neurodiversity, many feel pressured to mask their true selves, reducing the effectiveness of therapy.
To overcome these barriers, counsellors and therapists must adopt more inclusive practices, ensuring their methods are tailored to each client's cognitive and sensory needs.
This is something I feel incredibly passionate about and I have both training and practical experience working with neurodiversity, particularly with people living on the autistic spectrum. I understand the importance of having a safe space and freedom to express yourself however you feel most comfortable.